Having a Christmas holiday away with family can be a fantastic thing or it can be terrible. Some people really look forward to this sort of thing and others really dread it. It is always nice to try to make it good.
Making it a good thing can take some thought, but it can be worth it as the results can be great. If there is a big group of you then organisation can be harder, especially if there are several family members who like to take over the organisation. It is a good idea to make sure that everyone is happy with plans before proceeding and that could mean making sure that everyone communicates well.
It will mean that everything from the location to the duration as well as the activities planned will all have to be discussed at length and arranged beforehand but it could mean that the holiday is much more pleasurable. This will of course depend on how many people are going but once more than one family gets involved then it is likely to become more difficult to organise things. Also reaching a compromise could be hard and may mean that some people end up missing out on what they want to do which could end up making them miserable.
However, if things are likely to get extremely stressful, it could be better to consider not doing it at all. Many people just go to a certain place at Christmas because it is their tradition and not because they actually enjoy it. Travelling at this time of the year is always difficult and so it could be worth planning to do it at a quieter time or just not doing it at all. Christmas is about traditions and family but it should also be about fun and relaxation.